17 September: Love Who You Are
Dearest Beautiful Bride, Bride–to–Be, Bride–Used–to–Be, and Self–Love Brides of all genders,
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying that in order to love others, you have to love yourself first. Actually, this isn’t true! Love is unconditional — which means you don’t need to fulfill a duty or a responsibility (of loving yourself) before you can love others.
That being said though, today’s love oracle message is to love who you are:
Love who you are when you look in the mirror and love who you are even if you aren’t the way you want yourself to be right now. Beautiful Bride, be in a deep state of union within yourself. Gather up all the particles of not enough that have been spread across the attachments of your past and your anxieties of the future, and bring them back into who you are right now.
If you can be present for yourself, even the parts that you deem to be too much of or not enough of, you can be even more present for life and for all the joy, love, peace and abundance all around you. Which means, you’ll be even more present for your husband or wife and family, and they in turn feel more open to accept themselves as they are, too.
Creating a fairy tale life starts with loving who you are and embracing your desire to have a life that is outside the norm of what is expected of you.
So, forget about the mass consciousness marital myths: that relationships are hard work, marriages are hard work, and the expectation that it will be a struggle or that the passion will, at some point, wither away. Nope! Not for you, if you don’t want. Release the experiences and realities of other people’s lives — what they create is their business, not yours.
When you are in a relationship with your own soul and relate to others through your own soul, the quality of your relationships will become one of ease, bliss and pleasantness — not struggle and hard work to get along with your partner. Yes, there is stress in life, but it doesn’t mean it can’t be handled with a state of peace and pleasantness.
Love who you are means to love your own soul, so much so that you allow your soul to express itself in action in your everyday life, from small things to big things, from passing relationships to the momentous love relationship(s) of your lifetime.
I hope this message resonates with you. See you tomorrow for more!
La la la!